During a metro ride, the girl in front of me has her shoelaces loosen and I am distracted by it. Looking for the right time to tell her and debating whether I have to say anything about it.
I know about bystander effect but when it comes to the fundamentals, why do we hesitate about helping? Is there even a right or wrong time to help?
So this shoelaces occupied my mind for the entire ride, 38 minutes.